Sis
Sis the now all too common phrase used in association with strangers. Often used in terms of those we have no connection to and most times are not seeking to connect to. We've separated it from the true connection of sisterhood. Causing a strain and misappropriated placement in our lives.
Sisterhood is a phenomenal asset to the lives of women, its existence is needed. Positive sisterhood consist of our loyal tribe of women set in place as strength, power, loyalty, love, correction and true connection. I believe sisterhood to be a mandate in our lives. Intended to nurture the hearts, minds and spirits of one another. The bond that uplifts and encourages. One that empowers.
There is however a flip side in sisterhood. Something I like to call sisterhood soul ties. In which some of our loyalties to "sis" have driven us into crisis. Suffering from loyalty or connection that has landed us into personal crisis. Disloyalty to ourselves. Fear of being seen as not being a team player, being the outcast or being misunderstood. After all no one intentionally chooses to be the black sheep.
I can clearly recall this being a factor in my life in my late teens and early 20's. In the name of sisterhood I went to places and I've been in situations I knew I didn’t belong nor felt comfort in. Places that tapped in to issues I'd avoided. Here lied my cycle of crisis. Repetitive disfunction in the name of being a sister not wanting to disappoint sis.
It's most important we evaluate our relationships. Place distinction of purpose and ensure our loyalty to sis doesn't create an open door for personal crisis. Boundaries don’t equate disloyalty; they are purposed to protect our inner being and the assignment over our lives. Our sister girls should be a reflection of the God within us not our flaws. It's often said never be the smartest person in your circle of friends. Iron sharpens iron that which dulls you is not purposed for you. Your sisterhood relationships are your growing place.
We have all been created precious and distinctive jewels by Gods design. Don’t fall victim to things that dim your light……. My sisters continue to shine #ShakenForRestoration
Sisterhood is a phenomenal asset to the lives of women, its existence is needed. Positive sisterhood consist of our loyal tribe of women set in place as strength, power, loyalty, love, correction and true connection. I believe sisterhood to be a mandate in our lives. Intended to nurture the hearts, minds and spirits of one another. The bond that uplifts and encourages. One that empowers.
There is however a flip side in sisterhood. Something I like to call sisterhood soul ties. In which some of our loyalties to "sis" have driven us into crisis. Suffering from loyalty or connection that has landed us into personal crisis. Disloyalty to ourselves. Fear of being seen as not being a team player, being the outcast or being misunderstood. After all no one intentionally chooses to be the black sheep.
I can clearly recall this being a factor in my life in my late teens and early 20's. In the name of sisterhood I went to places and I've been in situations I knew I didn’t belong nor felt comfort in. Places that tapped in to issues I'd avoided. Here lied my cycle of crisis. Repetitive disfunction in the name of being a sister not wanting to disappoint sis.
It's most important we evaluate our relationships. Place distinction of purpose and ensure our loyalty to sis doesn't create an open door for personal crisis. Boundaries don’t equate disloyalty; they are purposed to protect our inner being and the assignment over our lives. Our sister girls should be a reflection of the God within us not our flaws. It's often said never be the smartest person in your circle of friends. Iron sharpens iron that which dulls you is not purposed for you. Your sisterhood relationships are your growing place.
We have all been created precious and distinctive jewels by Gods design. Don’t fall victim to things that dim your light……. My sisters continue to shine #ShakenForRestoration
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